life's mean reds.

reasons why getting attached doesnt seem that much of a draw to me anymore:

1. it has dawned upon me that it's probably impossible to find a single and available guy in singapore who looks like daniel wu, or takuya kimura.
2. it has dawned upon me that it's probably impossible to find a single and available guy in singapore who looks like daniel wu, or takuya kimura AND will appreciate me just the way i am and thus sparing me the sad fate of the constantly being in a one sided affair.
3. most of my friends in a relationship tell me it's better to be single.
4. i choose to believe them.
5. im afraid of getting hurt.
6. im afraid of hurting someone.

7. im just being sour grapes.

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